It’s January 3rd – have you blown your New Years Resolution yet? Maybe you already gorged yourself on a cheeseburger and french fries, or have already slacked on going to the gym, or have spent the last two nights glued to the television instead of reading that stack of books on your bedside table. It’s alright – resolutions like that are made to get broken.

However, one resolution you shouldn’t break is the goal to have better sex this year! And as Rachel Khona at YourTango discussed, a sex class might help ladies do just that – by teaching them to have better orgasms! Via YourTango:

I was intrigued when I heard about OrgasmicBliss.com. It’s a six-week online course that teaches women how to excel at the art of climaxing. Tantra practitioner and orgasm whisperer Layla Martin hopes to strip away the layers of repression keeping us from experiencing our full orgasmic pleasure. In the course women learn how to use their body chemistry, pelvic floor and breathing to enhance their orgasms. The end result? Sexual goddess. The only catch? It’s a whopping $180. Is it worth dropping the dough for a lifetime of orgasmic bliss? Only one way to find out.

So, Rachel took the class, which involved some very cringe-inducing lessons named things like ‘”Pussy Breathing” (“breathing” from my vagina), the “Sexy Squeeze” (Kegels), “Inner Smiling” (smiling to myself), and “Emotional Theater” (releasing negative emotions) among many others.’

After the course, Rachel was excited to test out her new body with her boyfriend, who she calls “M”. The verdict?

Eager to participate, M threw me on my back, pulled my legs above his shoulders, and went it for it. I was shocked and surprised to realize how intense it felt. Normally it’s a position I can get into right away (unlike the sideways straddle, now that is intense) but this time it felt like going from 0 to 60. Like when I accidentally turn up my vibrator to high instead of starting slow. I made him stop and switch to missionary so I could ease into it. Even oral sex felt intensified. I felt myself getting aroused in half the time; a plus for me since I’m used to the almighty Rabbit.

Could it be that the course had worked? I realized that for years I had been zoning out during sex. I don’t find myself worrying about waking up early or meeting that deadline when I’m doing it. I’m fully in the moment, but that doesn’t mean I’m focused. I had been kind of lazy when it came to the big O. Stick a vibrator in and let it work its magic. Or just push a guy south and see what happens. If I could get off great, if not then I assumed it was them not me. I had put little effort into doing my daily Kegels or fantasizing on how much I was enjoying the sensations. This time as M went downtown I actually focused on each flick of the tongue relishing in how good it felt. Let’s just say my clitoris was happier than she had been in a long time.

We’re gonna go with YES – OrgasmicBliss is a keeper. But if you don’t have the big bucks to shell out for the course, we imagine that taking a page out of Rachel’s book – concentrating on every sensation and emotion, would be a great way to make 2014 your best booty year ever!

Happy Friday – get some booty this weekend!