Welcome back from the long weekend – did you enjoy a relaxing kickback weekend or go balls to the wall from dusk till dawn? Well, whether you’re feeling energized and rejuvenated, or feel like a pile of soggy hotdog buns, there’s one thing that makes everyone feel better: a lil’ thang spelled s-e-x.

While getting a guy off is easier than setting off a roman candle, women are notoriously more difficult to please between the sheets. Sometimes, though, it’s tough to know what makes the ladies go WHOA, so the folks at BuzzFeed gathered up some women for a little Q&A on female sexual arousal. Check it out!