Sometimes, things that once seemed perfect begin to fade. Like, say, the fresco of Jesus crowned with thorns. Unlike that disaster, though, anybody can touch up their dating profile without completely destroying it in such a way that it’s so bad it’s funny. Here are a few of OBC’s tips for how to give your profile a fresh, classy, and fun overhaul.

1. Make your pictures count

Taking a couple new photos is a great way to put your best face forward. We think three solid shots is the best combination. One close of up your cute face, a nice body shot to highlight your best ass(ets), and one with friends or out doing your favorite hobby, so other members can see you in your element. Too many more can make you look a bit self-involved, and any less can make people think you’ve got something to hide. Make your shots clear, in focus, and with you as the center of the photo. You with 10 of your guy friends from a football field away is pretty pointless.

2. Treat your “About Me” like a short, fun, but meaningful bio.

No one wants to hear the whole story of your life – but they do want to get a good feel of the person they’re about to message. Fun things to mention could include: where you’re from, a couple hobbies, something you’d like to do in the future, and a playful but non-creepy invitation! (Ex: Hey! I’m BCUGirl. I’m a Californian, born and raised, and because of that enjoy playing volleyball on the beach, wine-tasting, BBQs with friends, and watching re-runs of Arrested Development. Though I’m terrified of heights, I’d someday like to try bungee jumping… interested in talking me into it?) Easy peasy!

3. Be specific (but open) in what you’re looking for.

You can’t be upset by a “let’s hook up” message if you haven’t specified your interests in your profile! Especially on OBC, most members are looking for a fun, casual, non-committal date, preferably one that ends in a good ol’ fashioned make out sesh (or more). If you’re looking for a more long-term or slow-moving relationship (and hey – many of our members have found that!), make sure to let everyone know! By saying, “While no one knows what the future holds, I’m not currently looking for one-night stands or anonymous booty calls. Let’s get to know each other and see where things go from there,” you let other members know you’re a cool, non-judgmental single who nonetheless knows what they want and are assertive about it.

Phrasing it like that is infinitely more desirable than an all-caps rant like, “BTW IF YOU’RE A DOUCHBAG WHO ONLY WANTS TO GET LAID DON’T EVEN CLICK ON MY PROFILE BECAUSE I’M NOT INTO THAT.” No one wants to go one a date with someone who has yelled at them before even learning their name.

Online dating, like the dating world in general, can be a confusing place. But by keeping your heart and brain open but guarded, you’ll have a great time meeting new people, going on fun dates, and maybe even getting some (or finding love!). Tune into tomorrow for another tip from OBC on how to move from chatting online to meeting in person!