You can always count on the fine people of Reddit to share the honest truth about a wide range of topics from “most overrated movie” to “best feeling besides sex”. More recently, the topic of dating came up, and women shared the “rookie dating mistakes” so many make, so you can make sure you don’t make them – whether it’s your first time dating or you’re back on the scene after a hiatus. Check em out below!

“Giving out too much personal info right away or meeting at your home or your date’s home on the first date. If you’re meeting someone from a dating app, meet in public — and give a friend the location where you’re going, and some info about the person you’re meeting. Your date is most likely a totally safe person, but just in case.”

“With online dating, letting the messaging drag on too long. Try to meet for something quick — like a coffee or a drink, not a full meal — as soon as possible. “

“Ignoring or dismissing red flags. If they show you who they are, then believe them. Don’t think, They’ll change, because they won’t.”

Getting picked up for a first date. Drive yourself… “That way, you can leave if you need to and the other person won’t know your address.”

“Taking things too seriously. You may hit it off with someone right away or never. Your date may be going on dates with other people until you both decide to be exclusive.”

“Worrying more about whether they like you than whether you like them.”

“Love bombing. Do you think they’re too good to be true? They’re saying all the right things, and then maybe they’re moving too fast or inserting themself into your life too soon.”