On a reunion episode of Selling Sunset (what is that? No idea), reality star (and Nick Cannon Baby Mama #24231) Bre Tiesi went on the record claiming that Peoples’ Sexiest Man and Marvel Star Michael B. Jordan isn’t great in bed.

Now, obviously, OBVIOUSLY, airing someone’s intimate life on television is the world’s most A-hole move. But let this be a lesson to all that even if you’re not a celeb, you should never kiss and tell – especially if you thought someone’s bedroom skills were below average.

Here are three reasons not to kiss and tell:

1. Privacy Matters

In the era of social media oversharing and constant connectivity, it’s become increasingly rare to maintain a sense of personal space. However, the intimate details of our romantic lives should be the exception, not the rule. By refraining from the temptation to kiss and tell, we honor not only our own privacy but that of our partners as well. Relationships are built on trust, and respecting each other’s boundaries is a fundamental part of maintaining that trust.

2. Preserving the Magic

Remember the excitement of a first date or the thrill of a new romance? There’s something inherently magical about those early stages of a relationship, an enchantment that can be easily shattered by broadcasting the details to the world. Keeping the special moments between you and your partner allows those sparks to flourish and develop into something more profound. It’s like having a secret garden of shared experiences – a place where the magic grows undisturbed by outside influences.

3. Avoiding Unnecessary Drama

Let’s face it – the more people who know about your romantic exploits, the higher the likelihood of drama. Whether it’s jealousy, misunderstandings, or unwanted opinions, oversharing can inadvertently stir the pot. By keeping the details to yourself, you’re not only safeguarding your relationship but also preventing unnecessary drama from infiltrating your personal life. After all, who needs added stress when you’re trying to navigate the already tumultuous waters of love and connection?

In conclusion, the art of not kissing and telling is a subtle skill that can greatly benefit your relationships. By respecting privacy, preserving the magic, and avoiding unnecessary drama, you’ll find that your romantic escapades become more meaningful and enduring. So, the next time you’re tempted to spill the beans, remember the power of a well-kept secret – because some things are just better left unsaid.