As we all know, body language is one of the most important weapons men have in their arsenal to know if a woman is flirting with them. Women tend to try and play coy and “hard to get” which usually translates into “acting like a standoffish b****” even when they’re fairly interested.

However, even reading women’s body language can be tough, so the guys over at Asylum got some help breaking the body cues down.

This first pose, according to the expert, shows that she’s laid back and also “aggressively flirting” with you. Her relaxed pose says she’s comfortable with you, which is a nice way of saying she wants you. Now.

Eesh. You are doing something wrong, dude. Her crossed arms, paired with the lean away from you, shows that she’s not pickin’ up what you’re puttin’ out. Luckily, though, her feet are still pointed at you, so you might still have a chance.

This is another pose, that according to the expert, says she’s down to get down. Her half leaning stance says she’d ready to leave the bar with you, if you’d just get the balls and DO IT.

Her arms are back, giving you access to her chest. What do you THINK this means?

Check out more body language codes that either say “Let’s do this” or “Move along, nothing to see here,” at Asylum!