Faking Orgasms May Increase Arousal
Turns out those over-the-top moans and heart-attack-like sheet-grabbing might actually be helpful to women in bed! According to a study by researchers atĀ Temple University and Kenyon College, faking an orgasm might actually make women MORE aroused.
Via the Independent:
[The researchers] asked 481 heterosexual females, who were sexually active but not in committed relationships, to indicate how much individual factors influenced their decision to fake an orgasm.
Four motives formed theĀ Faking Orgasm Scale for Women, and were as follows: altruistic deceit (faking it out of concern for a partner’s feelings, fear and insecurity (faking it to avoid negative emotions associated with the sexual experience), elevated arousal (attempting to increase one’s own arousal through faking orgasm), and sexual adjournment (faking orgasm to end sex).
The team found that women were more likely to fake orgasms to turn themselves on, rather than to end sex.
While we still wish that women were 100% sexually satisfied every time, it seems at least a plus that those “OH BABY”s aren’t all about “just getting it over with.” Oddly enough, the study called this motive “selfish,” as though faking an orgasm because you FEEL BAD is better than doing it because it makes you FEEL GOOD. Not sure how we feel about that.
Hey ladies, have you ever faked an orgasm? Why did you do it? Let us know in the comments!
moneka mo
April 14, 2014 @ 10:47 pm
Yes to get it over with, or I just wanted to go home because he was boring me.
nice2600
April 11, 2014 @ 1:37 pm
yes i have faked an orgasm to turn my man on amd to keep him coming back. He really loved the fact that i was cumming everytime we did it until one day i told him I was faking and our relationship went down hill from there. I never fake it any more and usually it makes the guy more determined to get me off.
Darla Porter
April 8, 2014 @ 8:43 pm
I have found that most guys just don’t seem to know what they are doing and seem to be more into getting themselves off instead of trying to make sure their mate is pleasured to…heck guys..reach down there and massage that little button if you can’t hit the g-spot!