Casual Sex: Are You OK With It?
Obviously, we’re always pro-casual sex. In our experience, when done safely and smartly, booty calls and friends with benefits relationships are fun, sexy (obviously), and a great way to engage in the human experience without having to tie yourself down in a long-term relationship. Of course, this may not be the case for everyone, and we’d be remiss to suggest so. On the other hand, it would also be wrong to suggest that casual sex is bad for everyone – when clearly there is a large segment of the population that is totally down with some no-strings-atttached booty.
We’ve got some backup on this topic in the form of a recent study that has shown that casual sex is A-OK for many people. From the study titled “Who Benefits From Casual Sex? The Moderating Role of Sociosexuality,” via Jezebel:
When it came to those who were sociosexually unrestricted, having casual sex was associated with higher self-esteem and life satisfaction and lower depression and anxiety. “Typically, sociosexually unrestricted individuals (i.e., those highly oriented toward casual sex) reported lower distress and higher thriving following casual sex, suggesting that high sociosexuality may both buffer against any potentially harmful consequences of casual sex and allow access to its potential benefits,” the researchers write.
If you’re hanging out at a website called OnlineBootyCall, we’re guessing you fit into the category of “sociosexually unrestricted,” so go out there and get laid. It’s good for your head AND your heart!
Mo
July 10, 2014 @ 10:00 am
Truth_stalker, I’m pretty sure “friends first, benefits later” option has been there since the beginning – I’ve been a member since 2003.
Also, I think you have a booty call confused with one night stand. Refer to this: https://www.onlinebootycall.com/blog/booty-call-vs-one-night-stand/
Truth_Stalker
July 6, 2014 @ 9:48 am
Riddle me THIS, ‘Online Booty Call’.. If you’re so ‘Pro-Casual Sex’, then WHY is it that your website now allows the option of choosing ‘Friends First, Benefits Later’ as if that doesn’t go against the very foundation of what the website (formally) stood for??!!
By doing so, you’ve given people (women, mainly) the option of playing ‘Hard-to-Get’ or at least made it easier for women whose intentions violate the very concept of a ‘Booty Call’ to join and waste the time and efforts of those of us who DID join your website for its original intended purpose.
Please reconsider what you’ve done. I know you did it to ‘expand your customer base and/or bank accounts, but.. It could also serve to turn potential ‘Gold’ Members away once they tire of the bullshit from the aforementioned demographic. Just a little advice from someone who’s already nearing the ‘Burnt Out’ stage. [:-\