Hey OBC fam! ?So, we just caught this piece from the New York Post about how traditional pick-up lines may be on their last leg in the modern dating scene. The article argues that in an era ruled by swipes, text messages at 2 a.m., and endless app browsing, the old “Hey baby, are you […]
Hollywood really did a number on us. Decades of movies have taught us that every love story needs a perfect ending: rain pouring, someone running through an airport, swelling music, credits roll. But in real life? Sometimes the movie just ends mid-scene. And that’s not tragic—it’s real. Not every spark turns into a wedding. Not […]
So we just read this gem of an article from Rolling Stone—yes, that Rolling Stone—about how Gen Z men are so paranoid about being filmed on dates that many are flat-out opting out of dating altogether. And you know what? We get it. Because this is wild. And yes, it’s gross.Picture this: you’re finally on […]
Pop star Lily Allen just said post-divorce dating has been “bitterly disappointing,” calling it punishing, humiliating, and just… not it. (via The Cut) And honestly? Same, girl. Re-entering the dating scene after a breakup can feel like being dropped into a reality show you didn’t audition for. Everyone’s swiping, ghosting, or “just seeing where it […]
Not every romance needs to be a forever story — some are just really, really good short stories. And that’s more powerful than you think.A short-term fling isn’t a failure; it’s a spark. It’s proof that you can still attract, connect, and flirt like you mean it. It reminds you that you’re desirable — not […]
If you’ve ever replayed a text 47 times before hitting send, congratulations — you’re an overthinker. Your brain’s basically a 24/7 dating committee, analyzing tone, punctuation, and the time stamp on that “hey ;).”But here’s the thing: overthinking ruins the fun part. You’re not supposed to treat a first date like a NASA launch sequence. […]
We all wanna have good time with our booty calls, but often women get the short end of the stick (no pun intended), especially if it takes more time, energy, and creativity to get her off. But a recent study is here to help, sharing four techniques women claim are ideal for taking them to […]
Essence just dropped a truth bomb: inflation isn’t just hitting your grocery bill—it’s coming for your love life, too. According to their recent piece on the cost of cuffing season, more than half of Black singles are cutting back on dates, and nearly 60% are now more money-conscious about how they date. Even worse, 40% […]
Love shouldn’t cost you an arm and a leg — but in some cities, it comes close. According to recent analyses of dating affordability, cities like Charlotte, Detroit, and Orlando rank among the lowest in total cost of dating. YahooThat said, when you factor in income levels, those cities often don’t stay at the top […]
You’ve heard of catfishing, right? Fake profiles, stolen pics, those classic red flags. Well now meet the next weird up-level: chatfishing — when someone uses ChatGPT (or another AI) to write their dating app messages, replies, DMs — basically letting a bot flirt for them. The Guardian calls it “how ‘Chatfishing’ made finding love on […]
