A recent news story from NBC News highlights a disturbing trend in online dating: women who prey on men for financial gain. In this case, a Las Vegas woman allegedly drugged and robbed older men she met on dating apps, leaving them vulnerable and unaware until it was too late.

While online romance can be rewarding, it also comes with risks—especially for those who don’t take precautions. Here are three key ways men can protect themselves from female scammers online:

1. Vet Your Matches Thoroughly

Before meeting someone from a dating app, do your homework. Look them up on social media, do a quick Google search, and verify that their photos and profile details are consistent. If they refuse video calls or always make excuses about meeting in public, consider it a red flag.

2. Meet in Public & Stay Sober

One of the alleged scammer’s tactics was drugging her victims before robbing them. The best way to avoid this is to meet in public places like coffee shops or restaurants and watch your drink at all times. Avoid excessive alcohol or any situation where you might lose control of your surroundings.

3. Be Wary of Financial Requests

A common scam involves women quickly asking for money, gifts, or expensive outings. Even if it seems innocent—like a sudden emergency or a sob story—it’s wise to set firm boundaries. If someone pressures you for money early in a relationship, it’s a major red flag.

Final Thoughts

While the Las Vegas case is extreme, it’s a reminder that scams aren’t just something that happens to the gullible—they happen to smart, successful men too. Staying cautious, setting boundaries, and using common sense can help you avoid becoming a victim.

On OBC Dating, every profile passes in front of human eyes for review. It’s our best effort to keep our site free of scammers. BUt some fall through the cracks – so be sure if you spot someone nefarious – hit that REPORT button!