Whether it’s MFM, FMF, or hell, MMM, you may have always fantasized about having a threesome. I mean, the more the better, right? Over on Reddit, someone asked those who have taken part in a menage-a-trois how it affected their relationships (and their tips)… and the answers might surprise you.

“Overall it was a good experience for all of us, but it’s mostly managing their emotions. I had my girlfriend start first before I did anything because I felt like it would make her feel some type of way.”

“If you try it, don’t worry — your first experience might be a little choppy. Pleasing two women isn’t as easy as it sounds. We’ve since had three ways with two different women and also play frequently with a female bisexual couple (with them I have to please three women). Truth is, they spend most of the time pleasing each other and you fill in with stunt cock as needed. Everybody wins.”

“I quickly determined that I was more of an accessory to the experience. I was an extra hand or mouth where it was needed, made the room warmer or cooler, and oh yeah, I got this rad dick here as well if we think that would come in handy. It did, but no: It wasn’t two women lavishing attention on me.”

“Good company and lots of alcohol turned into a MFF threesome with a good friend of hers. Both of us mostly focused on my wife. It was never really planned, and the other girl was mostly the ‘aggressor.’ Pretty sure we had a ‘WTF just happened?’ talk.”

“My girlfriend and I have threesomes several times a year (sometimes with women and sometimes with men). It’s definitely an interesting feeling when you’re watching them go at it. If you aren’t prepared for how to manage that in the moment and afterward, you definitely shouldn’t be trying to do threesomes or swaps.”

“We talked about it for months, communicated openly, and went over every scenario we could come up with. She was curious and I wasn’t going to say no. It went fine (apart from a bit of performance anxiety on my part) — she was telling me what to do, and got to ‘eat her first pussy.’ Watching her with another woman was the hottest part for me. We were also in a period of our best sex, and being open and communicating played a big part in that. I’ve never felt closer to her than that period.”