It’s true – lots of singles feel the pull to get into a relationship during the holidays – but there’s a reason we call it cuffing season: it can be a downright prison! Here are three reasons to avoid the pull of cuffing season during the holidays!

1. Crazy Busy Schedule: The holidays are like a non-stop party train with family gatherings, work parties, and who knows what else. Adding a new relationship to the mix could be like tossing another log on the fire. If you’re already swamped, maybe it’s cool to wait until life settles down a bit.
2. Broke-ish Vibes: Let’s be real, holidays can be a cash drain with gifts, dinners, and all that festive jazz. Starting a new relationship might mean you gotta drop some extra dough. If your wallet’s feeling a bit thin during this season of giving, it’s cool to be mindful of that.
3. Emotional Rollercoaster Feels: Holidays stir up all kinds of emotions, from the warm and fuzzy to the downright stressful. If you’re already navigating your own emotional rollercoaster or just not feeling super stable right now, adding a relationship might be like tossing emotional confetti into a fan. Maybe give yourself a break until you’re in a more chill headspace.

Everyone’s vibe is different. If it feels right for you, go for it. But if not, no biggie—there’s always time for relationship adventures when things calm down a bit. And while you’re waiting, log into the OBC Club app to find someone for fun, casual dates and steamy snow day hook ups!