“It’s not the size of the prize, it’s the motion of the ocean” might just seem like a vague and meaningless statement meant to make the little guys feel better, but according to a few women over at Reddit, there are actually benefits to sleeping with a guy with a more petite package. Via BuzzFeed, here are 5 reasons women say they go for guys with smaller junk.

“I’m a straight woman. I like the appearance of a large penis. However, no one with a large member has ever gotten anywhere close to getting me off, and the extra friction tends to dry me out very quickly, and there’s usually extreme chafing after a short while. I much prefer average to smaller men.”

“I was with a man who had a smaller penis (4 inches at most), and he was attentive, sweet, sexy, adept, and fun. And my god, I could have sucked that c*** for days on end — no jaw soreness, no gagging, just him writhing like a madman for ages and me loving every moment. Edging someone with your mouth is great fun.”

“Personally, I welcome a smaller penis. Having dated a guy rounding out over 8 inches, anything smaller than 5 inches is a beautiful thing. Blowjobs went from a 6 to a 10 on the pleasure scale for me while I was dating a guy with a smaller penis.“

“My current boyfriend has a smaller penis (3–4 inches), and he is also AMAZING in bed. I come almost every time we have sex (from the dicking alone), mostly because he has also learned different techniques (hip swiveling, etc.).“

“I’ve had boyfriends with giant penises who were awesome at first, but my vagina can only take so much. At the end of the day, I’d rather have an awesome guy with a small penis who can make me come with his hands and tongue.”

There you have it. Big Ds can simply be too big, and guys who are rocking compact sports cars instead of pickups often are simply better at the deed. We can toast to that.