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A YouTuber name Marina Iakovleva has founded a Youtube show called Dating Beyond Borders, which discussing dating trends around the world. She’s uncovering interesting quirks about the global differences when it comes to relationships, sex, and dating, and details them in her interesting videos.

In case you’re planning on heading to Europe for a dating adventure, here are a few interesting tips and quirks from various countries you’ll want to keep in mind. (Psst – we’re heading to Spain next!)

Via EuroNews:

The Netherlands:

Be direct

“If a Dutch person has an opinion, they won’t beat around the bush (which is the complete opposite to the Brits who often need about 10 sentences just to get to the point!)”

Value authenticity

“The Dutch also believe that one of the most necessary characteristics is to be down to earth, be genuine and be real.” (Not the social media app.)

FRANCE:

Voulez-vous un rendez-vous?

“There is no word for ‘dating’ in France! The closest you get is rendez-vous, which can also translate to a formal appointment or a non-romantic meeting.”

Keep it cas

“The French also don’t typically do the standard sit down, interview style of dates (the dating apps did change that somewhat),” says Iakovleva, emphasising that group hangouts are common and dating is much more casual. 

“There’s less about rules and labels (eg. third date we have sex, let’s have the talk), more about seeing if you’re attracted to each other and going with the flow.”

But not too cas

“Don’t dress too casually in France (this depends on the region of course as Northern France is a bit more casual), but generally speaking a sophisticated and elegant appearance is key.”

UK:

Humour is everything

“If there is one word to keep in mind when dating a Brit, it is banter,” says Iakovleva – banter being British slang for teasing remarks tossed lightheartedly between friends. 

“If you’re wondering how to chat up a British girl, forget about compliments, go for the humour. If a British guy is taking the piss out of you, it might be because he likes you. Playfulness, sarcasm and humour is used to create rapport and a connection between people.”

Germany:

No love games

“Germans are a pragmatic/practical bunch and prefer weighing the situation instead of getting swept away with their feelings. It’s less about beating around the bush as they prefer to be honest and straightforward with their intentions.” 

Respect boundaries

“Germans prefer taking their time in building a relationship instead of rushing into anything. Keep in mind that Germans really value their privacy and personal space, so they won’t be as open about their personal lives/feelings as other countries.

Spain:

More passion!

“Very sexually liberated, Spanish people are not afraid to be casual and to enjoy casual sex. Passion, physical affection, being highly social and going out (really late!) is a big part of the culture. 

Most Spanish people have no problem with speaking their mind without much filter and Spanish women are highly independent.”