We live in the future. Can you imagine if the year 2000 you knew the incredible ways you’d be able to use a phone, from listening to ANY SONG EVER MADE AT ANY MOMENT to translating languages using your camera and ordering weed? It’s incredible. And of course, there’s the ways our phones have made foreplay even better. we’ve all dirty texted and maybe even dirty phone called and sexy video chatted, but have you ever sent a dirty VOICE NOTE?

Via VICE, here’s how:

If you’ve never sent a voice note to your partner or FWB before, Gigi says you should ask them if they’d be into it – not just for clear consent reasons, but because it might be an awkward time if they’re out and about. “The problem with voice notes is that if you’re at an office and your phone’s not on silent and you play the voice note [out loud], the whole office might hear.”

Get used to sending regular voice notes first, she says, “Then get yourself in a space of sexiness. Make sure you’re alone and then just go for it. What I love about voice notes is that you can just be whoever you want to be [and] as dirty as you want to be.” 

Start off subtle. “You don’t have to go straight into ‘I’m thinking about your hard cock,’” Gigi says. “The easiest way to go for it is to be like ‘I’m thinking about you naked, you’re so sexy, I can’t wait to see you later’ stuff like that. It doesn’t have to be super raunchy, it can be quite mild and still be very hot.”

Describe a real-life sexual experience. “If this is someone you’ve had sex with before, it can be helpful to describe the last time you had sex.