5 Ways to Spice Up Your (Sex) Life
CA governor Gavin Newsom announced that anyone over 16 is free to get the COVID vaccine come April 15th, and daaaaamn are we excited. Does that mean Booty Binge Summer is truly on??? If so, it’s time to ramp up our sex game. VICE gave some tips from the experts for spicing up a vanilla sex life, and we are HERE for them.
Watch porn together
“Need a little bit of inspiration? Watching other people have sex—even in vanilla ways—can make your own sex lives feel hot in its very nature, too. Added visual stimulation might also give you the confidence to finally try a thing you’ve been tiptoeing around. “
Try a little biting
“Regardless of whether you or your partner are into rough sex, light biting can feel great in between kisses, both on the lips and on non-genital parts of your bodies. For some people, gentle biting can feel good on the latter areas, too—maybe you up the ante over time if you like the buildup. “
Give or get a handless handjob.
“A handless handjob is stimulation “without the use of hands, mouths, or throats on the genitals. In not using hands or oral sex, it opens the door to learning creative ways to stimulate your partner (or your own) genitals.””
Make a point out of having sex as slowly as you possibly can.
“Slowing down sexual play is a simple, indulgent and erotic way towards stepping outside of the box.”
Get into edging.
“If you’re looking for a sure way to increase your overall anticipation and excitement during foreplay or sex, try edging—a practice where you painstakingly build toward and refrain from orgasm right at the cusp—or edge—of climax.”
Okay, guys – which of these tips will YOU try this weekend?