We’d be lying if we didn’t acknowledge the fact that sometimes people use casual dating sites to find, erm, extramarital relationships. In other words, yes we know: some dudes and chicks on OBC be cheatin’. It’s impossible to know if a person is married unless they make it explicit in their profiles, and even then – hey, we’re not the morality police. Do whatcha gotta do! To assume that the possibility of affairs is an inherent flaw in online dating sites, though, is to say that bars, business conventions, and military biographies shouldn’t exist, because those things all facilitate affairs too.

OBC (unlike certain other dating sites that will remain unnamed) does not exist specifically to provide an easy out for unhappy marriages. On the contrary, we provide a place for single folk to come to meet, date, and hook up with other singles without promising forever. And on top of that, we notice from our weekly testimonials that our members are just as faithful and respectful, and are usually deleting their profile because they met someone and are ready for a monogamous, committed relationship. Just another reason that OBC is awesome and you should get your ass over to sign up right now.

“Met an amazing guy unexpectedly. We are fresh but I don’t want anything to get in the way of what’s developing . Wish us luck!! And thanks a lot!!!” Female, 27, San Diego, CA

“I found someone on here who wants a relationship!” Female, 53, Marietta, GA

“Found someone special :)” Female, 45, Columbus, OH

“I tried a lot of other sites but I kept getting mismatched, but I think I have found the one! If not I shall return!” Female, 52, Memphis, TN