We are proud every week to share our members’ happy-ever-afters, stories of meeting their soul mates and even getting married – all from a site called OnlineBootyCall! However, we rarely get to hear the happy couples’ stories after a few weeks, months, or years of being together (except of course, in this special case), and we often wonder if the relationships worked out. We wish that we could send them off with a bit of relationship advice, some tips from us at OBC who have, brace yourself, been in long term relationships too.

Sure, we prefer booty calls over long term shenanigans, but hey – doesn’t mean we can’t share some tips from the trade, right? And don’t worry, they’re easy as pie!

1. Keep it Fun

It’s not rare to see a couple meet, have a blast together going out, trying new things, partying together, and more… just as it’s not surprising to see a couple become exclusive and start spending all their time at home, eating pizza and watching movies. Hey – we’re not bashing it, sometimes sitting back and watching a movie in your PJs is just what the doctor ordered. But doing that too often can be a recipe for disaster, because the moment one person gets bored, they’re more likely to break it off, or worse – cheat. So treat every day like it’s the first time you met. Hit a park for a picnic, go to the zoo, or sign up for rock climbing classes. It doesn’t have to be expensive, just fun!

2. Keep it Casual

While losing the excitement and interest can be a guaranteed relationship-killer, the opposite is also true – getting high-strung and uptight about the relationship is one of the world’s biggest turn offs. Many people have a hard time trusting others because they’ve been hurt before, but that’s life. Instead of letting insecurities take control, remember you can’t control other people, but you can control your reactions to them. Allow yourself to feel relaxed and open to whatever may come your way, and you’ll have way more time to enjoy the relationship!

3. Keep it Sexy

One of our biggest gripes about relationships is the widely held idea that sex should always take a backseat to emotions. Sure, syncing on an emotional level is key to a solid relationship, but a great sex life can make or break a relationship, so it’s important to share as many intimate moments as possible. Not only will they improve your mental (and physical) health, but the endorphins released during boot-knockin’ is likely to help your relationship go the distance! We may be offering relationship advice, but we’re still masters of booty- so if you listen to any advice, make it this one!

And for those of you who aren’t quite to this level, check out this week’s other OBC advice columns:

Touch Up Your Dating Profile
Taking the Flirting Offline
Stay Single or Go Steady?