Team OBC is mourning pretty hard for the King of Weird, David Bowie, listening to Life on Mars and crying into our spandex, but there was a bright spot of happiness to had when we learned that 2015 was deemed the Year of Casual Sex by prominent psychologist Dr. Becky Spelman. She asked the important question, is it healthy? and got the same answer we ALWAYS hear – there is no answer, it’s up to you!

…can a fulfilling sexual life be reached in a healthy way, outside of a relationship?

This isn’t an easy answer, as it relies not just on the individual, but also their partner, or partners*. I have worked with people for whom the answer is no, and with people who I would unequivocally answer yes to this question, with the deciding factor being one simple word; honesty.

Yep – there you have it! Be honest with yourself and your partners, and practice safe, consensual sex – and you can have a healthy sex life, whether it’s with one person or four people a month you met on OnlineBootyCall.com, the #1 casual dating site on the web (which, by the way, you can join for FREE!).